醫生話擔心仔仔有自閉!但又未confirm到?

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| 2006-02-09 00:09
各位有經驗之家長,請給我一些寶貴意見:

我仔仔只得22個月,在18個月時到健康院檢查時姑娘見仔仔冇eye contact, 又叫都唔認,所以就轉介去評估中心見醫生,上個月見完醫生話擔心仔仔會有自閉,但又因仔仔尚細,未能完全confirm,實在令到我很不知所措!

其實仔仔表面看來很正常,其他人也不覺得他有問題,但因我是全職照顧他,所以他的一舉一動也會留意到,仔仔總是很少正眼看我,而且經常叫他也不會回應我(可能10次只得1次成功)所以我才有些擔心他!

最令我心煩的就親友們都不認同我和醫生的說法,不停地去用普通人的常識來證明仔仔是正常的,令到不知所措的我感到很大pressure!他們不明白,我惟有解釋何解我們會有這想法,可是我越是解釋,他們就誤以為我話自己個仔一定有自閉.....真的很不開心!完全沒有人理解作為媽媽的我在呢一刻的心情已經有多難受....!

另一方面我感到很迷茫的就是到底應不應該帶仔仔去參加那些特殊訓練班呢?因為仔仔尚年幼,太早返會不會令到他不是也變是...

希望各位家長可給我一些意見!
承承媽媽 | 2006-02-09 00:20
puipui&heihei,

以你現在的情況,我覺得你最好儘快幫你的小朋友報讀全日制的幼兒園,因為我們不能單憑多不多/有無eye contact/叫佢應不應來斷定小朋友是否有自閉傾向,如果他純粹是自我中心,未學識回應別人,當他返了幼兒園之後,可以有很大的改善.另一方面,幼兒園的老師們長期對住很多小朋友,她們會比較容易分辨小朋友是否有學習障礙的.
如果評估中心的醫生說擔心你仔仔有自閉傾向,他有沒有轉介你去排早期訓練或兼收位?另外仔仔是否有其他的學習障礙,例如:語言發展遲緩/大小肌肉的問題等?
katyfok | 2006-02-09 02:16
Me Too.!!!!
My daughter is now 23 months old and was told my a specialist Dr. at 養和醫院 the same thing. She said looks like autistic ... but mild and cannot confirm.more correctly, the Dr. said she's just too young to be DEFINED as autistic.. but she has some trace of it.
she is now referred to Hip hong for language therapy and occupational therapy.
my daughter has great eye contact, not afraid of stranger, no specific rountine.. but she sometimes do not respond to my calling, more importantly no words yet...
Since she has been going to playgroup since 10 month old... the teacher at playgroup and my family are all in denial...they said she is just a late talker .. not autistic... i don't know what to believe anymore.
sometimes, I look at her... I know she's a little different than other kid... sometimes, I feel like she is just doing what other normal kids would do.
It's just so hard at this point... the therapy at hip hong will start this week... we'll see how it goes.
four44 | 2006-02-09 09:16
katyfok

你是排協康 heep hong??? 咁快有位? 是st 嘛?? 我見有人排一年都未有位呀 !! 你就好啦!

?-(
fion414 | 2006-02-09 12:25
puipui&heihei,

請問妳仔仔識唔識講野? 會唔會叫極都唔停四維走?
其實那些特殊訓練班, 主要教妳一些技巧來在家訓練小孩, 而妳有問題亦可請教治療師, 還有可以認識其他家長交換心得.

Dr.T | 2006-02-09 12:35
早期訓練的作用正正就是盡快改善各方面的障礙,令小朋友的發展得以回復正軌-不要過份擔心,三心兩意拖下去反而可能會誤了可以改善的空間.

其實在這階段有政府安排的服務已經頗理想,因為排期也要相當的時間,至於有否需要再找私人甚至那些個人跟進訓練就真的可以留待公家訓練開始後再決定-但當然如果排期太久又作別論.

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...我感到很迷茫的就是到底應不應該帶仔仔去參加那些特殊訓練班呢?因為仔仔尚年幼,太早返會不會令到他不是也變是...
pamam | 2006-02-09 14:45
puipui&heihei and katyfok

I think you should believe your mother's instinct, if you feel there is something strange about your kid, you should get professional advice.

I felt my son was 'strange' at 2 years old but everybody kept telling me he was fine, maybe a late talker, maybe a bit chubby(for his clumsiness) etc...............perhaps both me and my hushand were in denial and we have never heard of Autistic features or asperger........with hind sight, it's really no harm to do an assessment and start early training.

One of my friends's daughter was assessed with autistic features, she let her daughter started whole day nursary rightaway and gave her speech and OT therapies. At N3 now, she was re-assessed as normal and now no need to do any therapies. My point is even if your kid is 'mis-diagnosed' with AF, there is nothing to lose to let them get early training. It's better to play safe than regret later!

Pamam
katyfok | 2006-02-09 15:33
four44,
yeah... I only waited 2 weeks and someone from Heep hong called already.
They are really prompt.
| 2006-02-09 15:34
謝謝各位的意見，其實去年九月我也有帶仔仔返playgroup，目的也是想仔仔多些幾會見其他小朋友，不過起初就要花很多堂去適應，因為仔仔每次都很不合作，而且不停要離開，每次上堂後我都很疲憊不堪!...直到最後爸爸也來一起上堂，情況才好轉，眼見仔仔對我咁不服從，心裡真的很難受!而且每次看見其他小朋友同仔仔有很多不同的地方,回家後就會感到很不愉快，我不是要將仔仔跟其他人比較,但看見有這麼大的分別時，心靈上一定有些錯敗感!曾經好想放棄返playgroup,但就會將仔仔可以改好的機會也一同放棄.

今天我也致電協康會詢問有關的課程，但他們未有for咁細個小朋友的訓練班﹐暫時只有playgroup,不過我也會去試吓,希望可以同其他家長交流意見,希望對仔仔會有些幫助....因為政府排期要最少要等10個月,到時仔仔都已經返n1了!我想在這個時期可給他些training會較為有幫助
katyfok | 2006-02-09 15:37
pamama,
I thought so... and i agree with you 100%.
that's why no matter what other said, we are starting therapy this week anyway.
I figured starting training earlier the better. No point to be in deneial.
the thing is we are expecting another baby in a month... I just don't know how much patience will I have by then. We'll see.


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