我的ADHD (過度活躍症/多動症/專注力失調) 兒子停藥了！

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LJennifer | 2009-11-12 17:37
Hi

Can you send me the contact details of your Chinese Herbalist and DHA.

thanks


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leeamen | 2009-11-13 11:40
Quote:原帖由 峻峻媽 於 09-11-12 12:49 PM 發表

leeamen
好多謝你呀..
其實我好無助..因為老公唔認同我既做法.佢覺得打先係最有用..如此我同佢爭議左好耐..到最後我唔再爭議了.因為再講都冇用...而家依然覺得個仔之所以有呢個問題.一切都係因為我...係我唔打個仔.導致個仔咁反叛,咁難教...所以我打後既路我只會靠自己去幫個仔...好似有d孤身作戰咁呀..
何況我仲未有期見精神科醫生..想醫都冇得醫...好無奈呀..


除了打與放任之外，還有很多不同的管教方法，看您描述的情況，我認為可先和孩子訂下一些大家都認同的家規 （如不許亂丟東西），然後要用非常堅定的態度，通過奬勵或罰來執行。您孩子的情緒很不穩定，要和他多溝通，看看有甚麼大家都接受的方法去舒緩，如做運動或打枕頭等，最重要的是讓他知道您愛他，才對他有要求！您和丈夫都要多溝通，如果立場不一，管教很難收效！

雖然您現在還沒有機會見精神科醫生，那並不代表您現在無法可施，其實醫生或心理學家都是會給您一些意見，最重要的還是要您努力的實踐出來！試試我的建議 （http://adhdinhim.blogspot.com/2009/11/adhd.html），對您兒子一定會有幫助的！ [ 本帖最後由 leeamen 於 09-11-13 11:56 編輯 ]
峻峻媽 | 2009-11-14 11:58
Quote:原帖由 leeamen 於 09-11-13 11:40 發表


除了打與放任之外，還有很多不同的管教方法，看您描述的情況，我認為可先和孩子訂下一些大家都認同的家規 （如不許亂丟東西），然後要用非常堅定的態度，通過奬勵或罰來執行。您孩子的情緒很不穩定，要和他多溝通，看看有甚麼大家都 ...

leeamen
thank you
我已經設計左一套獎罰既遊戲..係由社工教我架..唔係work唔work..但我都會試囉..我唔會放棄任何一個可以幫到個仔既方法..
係呀..仔仔情緒好唔穩定.就禽日已經係街同我搞我好耐.一直大吵大叫..仲開始郁手打我..場面跟本失控..圍觀既人係好多...我內心真係好難受.但我冇喊(即場).我只係不停同個仔講.涼啦.返屋企啦..無論你點扭我都唔會買架啦.結果真係要成粒鐘.個仔先安靜跟左我返屋企..最後都係咩都冇買,,
雖然好似終於成功左.因為我既堅持..但回到家.我沖入廁所..我既眼淚終於忍唔到呀..我好痛心...我痛既唔係比個仔打.唔係個仔講左一d好傷我既說話(佢話唔再做我個仔等等)..而係..見到佢其實我知佢都好辛苦...而我呢個阿媽.好似...幫唔佢d咩....只係旁邊望住佢..直到佢冷靜為止...
講真我發夢都未想過要面對呢類既小朋友.係咁辛苦..
條路真係好難行...仲要行幾耐..有幾遠...
但係我都係唔會放棄...我一定會陪伴個仔...縱使真係好辛苦.好累....
nc2000 | 2009-11-15 16:54
峻峻媽, 加油, 加油! 其實你小朋友咁反抗性情況, 又會令大家情緒都咁激動, 有無諗過比藥佢食, 可以令大家都無咁辛苦呢?
唔好放棄, 陪伴同教導子女成長已經不易, 更何況我地小朋友係有情緒問題ADHA 兒! 共勉之!


Quote:原帖由 峻峻媽 於 09-11-14 11:58 發表

leeamen
thank you
我已經設計左一套獎罰既遊戲..係由社工教我架..唔係work唔work..但我都會試囉..我唔會放棄任何一個可以幫到個仔既方法..
係呀..仔仔情緒好唔穩定.就禽日已經係街同我搞我好耐.一直大吵大叫..仲 ...
峻峻媽 | 2009-11-16 00:03
Quote:原帖由 nc2000 於 09-11-15 16:54 發表
峻峻媽, 加油, 加油! 其實你小朋友咁反抗性情況, 又會令大家情緒都咁激動, 有無諗過比藥佢食, 可以令大家都無咁辛苦呢?
唔好放棄, 陪伴同教導子女成長已經不易, 更何況我地小朋友係有情緒問題ADHA 兒! 共勉之!


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nc2000
thank you
係呀,,,評估中心個醫生都話阿仔對抗性行為好嚴重..我已經唔敢再激動啦.由確診到而家我已經冇再鬧佢.打佢...因為我知道佢都好辛苦...我又點忍心呢..我會.我會一直幫個仔.我知有一日佢一定可以控制到自己..唔知點解..可能我只係岩岩開始..真時真係好累.感覺好吃力...想起仲有漫漫長路..日子如果過呢...但我依然會陪伴個仔一齊過..難過都總要過
至於食藥,,,我都仲未有期睇精神醫生.我已提左轉介信.不過話張等醫生睇左再評估先會有期囉,,何況新症排到2010年12月呀..我又冇能力睇私家...
咁我而家可以做既野係咪有限呀.,,,,,
leungchai | 2009-11-16 16:43
峻峻媽,
Don't ever give up. The most important thing is to let your son feels that he has love from you and your husband. I would suggest you discuss the rules with him before you want to do something with him, or introduce a new event to him. This is important as he could have an expectation of what he's going to do while you could "control" his behaviour to a certain extent. I don't suggest you to bit him as well as he might have difficulties in expressing himself wholly. If time allows, do bring him outside to relax himself, or let him do something that he likes to relax himself, or you could see if some sports might help him to release, even as simple as a bouncing ball might be good to him.

Don't be sad. There will be a lot of people supporting you. God chose you to be your son's mother because he knows that you can, and you have the patience... don't ever give up!!!
rvp | 2009-11-16 21:55
hi leeamen, my son is now 4 yrs old and was diagnosis as autistic, dyspraxia and a bit of ADHD. Recently, i realised that his ADHD symtom is getting worst, i really dont know how to manage and what should i need to do. I act like a single mum and its really make me feel exhaursted, no direction at all. I want to let my son to try the Dore program, but the web site is closed, can u tell me where i can find the service, and can u tell me the traditional Chinese doctor information. My son cant really sleep thru during the nite time, he got the sleeping disorder, shake many times at nite cos cant breath in the air, and that's make him so tried, tantrum and so many weir reaction. some ppl suggested me not to give him the medicine so early, may be wait til he is 6, but i found him always day dreaming at school and not concentrate, i just wonder should i put him to the special school..... so many questions....i really dont know what to do...
would you give me some suggestion?
thanks!
leeamen | 2009-11-17 14:39
Quote:原帖由 峻峻媽 於 09-11-14 11:58 AM 發表

leeamen
thank you
我已經設計左一套獎罰既遊戲..係由社工教我架..唔係work唔work..但我都會試囉..我唔會放棄任何一個可以幫到個仔既方法..
係呀..仔仔情緒好唔穩定.就禽日已經係街同我搞我好耐.一直大吵大叫..仲開始郁手打我..場面跟本失控..圍觀既人係好多...我內心真係好難受.但我冇喊(即場).我只係不停同個仔講.涼啦.返屋企啦..無論你點扭我都唔會買架啦.結果真係要成粒鐘.個仔先安靜跟左我返屋企..最後都係咩都冇買,,
雖然好似終於成功左.因為我既堅持..但回到家.我沖入廁所..我既眼淚終於忍唔到呀..我好痛心...我痛既唔係比個仔打.唔係個仔講左一d好傷我既說話(佢話唔再做我個仔等等)..而係..見到佢其實我知佢都好辛苦...而我呢個阿媽.好似...幫唔佢d咩....只係旁邊望住佢..直到佢冷靜為止...
講真我發夢都未想過要面對呢類既小朋友.係咁辛苦..
條路真係好難行...仲要行幾耐..有幾遠...
但係我都係唔會放棄...我一定會陪伴個仔...縱使真係好辛苦.好累....


其實您這樣的處理方法是很適當的，您做德很好哦！能堅持下去，孩子就會適應，情緒會慢慢的穩定，不會常常有那麼大的波動。再在孩子情緒穩定的時間，再跟他解釋妳堅執的理由，讓他明白妳有多愛他，記得要告訴他，他打媽媽會令媽媽多麼難受，隨著他成長，他總會明白的！加油！明天會更好！
leeamen | 2009-11-17 14:41
Quote:原帖由 leungchai 於 09-11-16 04:43 PM 發表
峻峻媽,
Don't ever give up. The most important thing is to let your son feels that he has love from you and your husband. I would suggest you discuss the rules with him before you want to do somethi ...


Your suggestions are very helpful indeed!I totally agree with you!
leeamen | 2009-11-17 14:43
Quote:原帖由 rvp 於 09-11-16 09:55 PM 發表
hi leeamen, my son is now 4 yrs old and was diagnosis as autistic, dyspraxia and a bit of ADHD. Recently, i realised that his ADHD symtom is getting worst, i really dont know how to manage and what sh ...


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