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| joey媽媽 | 2005-05-08 10:46 |
| 做 手 術 前 仍 掛 心 自 閉 兒 一 家 四 口 ， 有 兒 有 女 ， 本 來 是 一 個 典 型 的 幸 福 家 庭 。 哥 哥 聰 聰 五 歲 時 卻 患 上 自 閉 症 ， 不 懂 說 話 ， 不 懂 交 際 ， 甚 至 會 無 故 大 吵 大 嚷 。 媽 媽 需 要 付 出 很 多 時 間 照 料 哥 哥 ， 妹 妹 阿 恩 曾 經 有 點 「 妒 忌 」 ， 到 阿 恩 明 白 事 理 的 時 候 ， 她 記 得 媽 媽 這 樣 說 過 ： 「 係 我 帶 佢 呢 個 世 界 ， 點 辛 苦 我 都 要 照 顧 佢 。 」 現 已 五 十 多 歲 的 梁 太 如 此 堅 強 ， 但 也 曾 為 兒 子 哭 過 。 小 時 候 一 家 人 上 街 ， 聰 聰 突 然 亂 叫 亂 跳 ， 途 人 側 目 ， 還 冷 言 冷 語 ： 「 黐 線 ？ 咁 恐 怖 ？ 」 梁 太 低 頭 不 語 ， 暗 自 垂 淚 。 二 十 年 來 ， 梁 太 每 天 朝 七 晚 五 把 聰 聰 從 屯 門 送 到 九 龍 的 服 務 中 心 接 受 教 育 和 輔 導 ， 幾 年 前 政 府 安 排 兒 子 入 住 訓 練 中 心 後 ， 梁 太 卻 患 上 腦 腫 瘤 。 有 一 晚 ， 她 在 床 上 嚴 重 抽 筋 ， 半 邊 身 不 能 活 動 ， 需 及 時 做 手 術 ， 梁 太 仍 逕 自 四 出 叮 囑 親 友 ， 懇 請 他 們 日 後 多 多 照 料 訓 練 中 心 的 兒 子 。 *******************************************************[size=medium]我都有諗過我和老公都不幸走了,那麼我們的自閉兒會點呢 :-( :-( [size=medium]交拖親友又怕他們沒有辦法及技巧照顧,所以都唔敢再諗下去 :-( [size=medium]唯有珍惜現在,努力教導 :hammer: [size=x-large]最後祝 大家母親節快樂 :party: :mrgreen: :cheeze: :wave: :-) |
| mrsphcheung | 2005-05-08 17:10 |
| There must be a way out. Happy Mother's Day. |
| Dickyma | 2005-05-08 17:29 |
| 你要加油. |
| markojacey | 2005-05-08 19:52 |
| For every mother, 母親節快樂, and hope all of us can be more 堅 強to take care our child. :party: |
| 暴龍媽咪 | 2005-05-08 21:54 |
| 祝天下偉大的母親 [size=medium]開心 [size=medium]健康 [size=medium]長壽 Happy Mother's Day 愛心無邊際, 總有收獲的時候, 我們一起加油!!!!!!!!! :-D :-D |
| chanchanboy | 2005-05-08 23:03 |
| joey媽媽, 我諗呢度大部份ge爹地媽咪都同你都有同樣諗法. 我自己可以做就係買定兩份保險比個仔, 同埋都吩咐定自己同老公d屋企人, 我自己家姐同老公家姐(佢仲去上course)都好肯學d方法, 屋企大部人都有睇過"與光同行", 都幾有用ga. 有時真係好驚, 果陣唯有諗, 既然神將個小朋友交比我, 神會同我安排ge. |
| jasper888 | 2005-05-09 20:13 |
| A poem to share with all mothers with a autistic child:- THE SPECIAL MOTHER by Erma Bombeck Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen? Somehow I visualize God hovering over earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As He observes, He instructs His angels to make notes in a giant ledger. "Armstrong, Beth; son. Patron saint...give her Gerard. He's used to profanity." "Forrest, Marjorie; daughter. Patron saint, Cecelia." "Rutledge, Carrie; twins. Patron saint, Matthew." Finally He passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child." The angel is curious. "Why this one God? She's so happy." "Exactly," smiles God, "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel." "But has she patience?" asks the angel. "I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it." "I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has her own world. She has to make her live in her world and that's not going to be easy." "But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you." God smiles, "No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect -she has just enough selfishness." The angel gasps - "selfishness? is that a virtue?" God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a "spoken word". She will consider a "step" ordinary. When her child says "Momma" for the first time, she will be present at a miracle, and will know it!" "I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice....and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing My work as surely as if she is here by My side". "And what about her Patron saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in mid-air. God smiles, "A mirror will suffice." |
| HelenMrs.Lau | 2005-05-10 10:40 |
| Quote: joey媽媽 寫道: 我都有諗過我和老公都不幸走了,那麼我們的自閉兒會點呢 :-( :-( 交拖親友又怕他們沒有辦法及技巧照顧,所以都唔敢再諗下去 :-( 唯有珍惜現在,努力教導 :hammer: 最後祝 大家母親節快樂 :party: :mrgreen: :cheeze: :wave: :-) 照顧我地哩D小朋友真係要有無比愛心 |
| joey媽媽 | 2005-05-10 11:45 |
| HelenMrs.Lau 寫道: 照顧我地哩D小朋友真係要有無比愛心 |
| HelenMrs.Lau | 2005-05-10 16:32 |
| joey媽媽: 我阿仔龜速前進緊 :mrgreen: |
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