Re: 家有學習遲緩兒上學的問題

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fionacheng1026 | 2004-09-27 02:15
小兒自11個月的時侯便懂得說一些單字，如：媽媽、爸爸、mun mun、奶奶、婆婆、
mamee | 2004-09-27 07:06
fionacheng1026

我仔仔現在3歲半, 現在返緊兼收位, 已返了一年了. 我也是個全職媽咪.

其實小朋友剛開始返學, 好多時都是這樣=先返1個鐘, 依家2個鐘, 再慢慢加時間上去.
再者, 打從第一天你便已經同學校講清楚仔仔的情況. 如果校長主任=行政人員, 已知道情況. 都幾肯定你個小朋友仍然可以上學. 至於老師方面, 一來可能是講者=老師無心, 聽者=你有意. 我唔清楚你仔仔情況如果, 有可能老師覺得SCC(特殊學位)更可能幫助到仔仔, 因為返SCC真的是全日都在上各類治療.

你有時間可以去[好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~]裡看看, 那裡其他媽咪亦你的經歷.
你的路, 我多少也過. 雖然未必完全相同.
首先唔好自責~好多時候小朋友[有點特別], 原因未必因為父母教養得唔夠好. 好多時是他自身就有點特別.
盡量堅強些~世界上總有人明白多些, 亦有人唔會明白我地的情況. 所以我從來都唔會盼望, 其他人會/願意接受仔仔的情況, 我自己明白就足夠.

排兼收位時, 社工應該同仔仔排埋[早期訓練]. 你有聽講過嗎?
另外, 私人機構亦有各式各樣治療, 不過收費好貴.

7點喇, 要開工=忙返學. 遲些再傾.

mamee
ALAL | 2004-09-27 11:51
fion,
try communicating with your existing school. If found the school not suitable, may change to school that has 兼收. They have more experience in dealing with special school. Say for my son's nursery has 12 integrated seat. Some children of normal seat even need more special care than integrated seat.
hinhinmummy | 2004-09-27 11:52
fionacheng1026

政府的野就係甘, 拖得你就拖, 拖無可拖就...

好彩你堅持, 我成日諗, 交甘多稅都不知做mug, 到依家話要排政府的早期訓練, 都話起碼要排半年, 做父母的, 如果能力可以的話, 又點會不自己比錢同佢做訓練wor.

我提議你同你仔仔轉校, 或者讀pre-nursery先, 因為幼稚園佢地的包容性低, 佢地係注重學術性, 而幼兒園, 就注重群體生活, 自理(食飯, 訓覺等).

我個仔本來今年都係讀k1, 但臨開學前先評估到佢係學野慢, 醫生話(兩個), 比佢讀k1, 只會浪費佢的時間, 因為教佢abc, 佢只會一舊雲.

另外, 如有經濟許可的話, 比d早期訓練佢, 有無聽過協康? 佢地的幼兒訓練幾好架(我聽d媽咪講), 我個仔岩岩開始左第一堂.
mamee | 2004-09-27 12:05
fionacheng1026

hinhinmummy所講的協康幼兒訓練, 我仔仔都返左成年. $350一堂, 不過做之前要先做評估. 大約預兩堂時間來做評估. 你可以click入[協康]個網址睇下.

Sorry! 可能一大朝早6點幾, 個人都未瞓醒, 所以之前我睇錯左. 我以為你仔仔讀緊有兼收位的幼兒中心. 現在仔仔讀緊普通幼稚園嗎?
我都好贊成, 可以的話, 轉去讀有兼收位的幼兒中心. 幼兒中心運作較寬鬆, 加上如果學校本身有開兼收位的話, 老師們態度真係會接受啲.

你住在港島嗎? 如果可便的話, 我可以約你食個早餐, 傾下計~你我也是全職媽咪.

mamee

fionacheng1026 | 2004-09-27 13:28
HI！mamee、hinhinmummy、ALAL，好多謝妳們的回應，至於[好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~]這個topic我以看過，而早期訓練學位已排
陸美爸 | 2004-09-27 13:50
fionacheng1026~

我都非常同意以上各mama所講，如果呢間學校無心幫你仔仔，而你亦都對佢地嘅教學方法無信心，不如盡快幫仔仔搵過間好學校仲好，相信幼兒園會比較適合呢~我囝囝都係返緊幼兒中心，亦都等緊早期訓練/兼收位/協康幼兒訓練......但見你都排咗成七個月，我諗我都有排等呢!!!

要知道，時間對於我地嘅小朋友非常重要，無謂浪費係一間幫唔到你嘅學校喇~

另外唔知你有無睇過，近排hinhinmummy花咗唔少時間，將佢仔仔嘅教材打俾我哋睇(係[好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~]topic裡)，可以係屋企幫仔仔做訓練，幾好架~

陸美媽
hinhinmummy | 2004-09-27 14:01
fiona

如果真係經濟不許可的話, 你試下係屋企都自己同佢做, 你去番好擔心...果個topic, 我打左4頁notes出黎架.

另外你join 協康的青蔥計劃的members呀, 有得借玩具, 佢地的玩具都係比較岩我們的小朋友架.

你上去協康的web-site度看看.
mrsphcheung | 2004-09-27 14:01
Dear fionacheng1026,
My son also was diagnosed as developmental delay at 3 years and 10 months. I did not wait for the arranagement of the government as I could not wait. I checked the list of those suitable child care centres which provide inclusive programme and called them individually. They replied that all were full. But, never mind. I asked them whether there was placement in normal programme. Nowadays, the birth rate is falling. Majority of these child care centres have placement in normal programme. My son could get the placement in normal programme easily and the special education-trained teacher gave him extra care. My son now has entered the inclusive programme in the same school. So far, so good. My experience is tricky, but very useful. I highly recommend you to try. Good luck. :hammer: :hammer:
mamee | 2004-09-27 15:02
fionacheng1026

除左協康外, 明愛都有家長資源中心, 亦應該有這類借玩具的服務. 打去電話去問下, 通常這類機構的姑娘都幾熱心, 幫到都會作答.
協康同明愛我都有join member, 不過只係用來參加星期六playgroup, 可惜兩次都抽唔中.

唔介意問下, 仔仔情況如何?
好動=我仔仔就係這類型; 定好靜=hinhinmummy仔仔係呢樣型; 肯乖乖坐下嗎? 小朋友肯坐, 會容易教啲.
還未開口講說話~有無發音, ee呀呀都計, 定真係唔願出聲?

mamee


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