what should I do if my son kicked / hit his little brother suddenly without reason (he mentioned that he just play with him) but he knows it's wong!
對於這個問題, 可以試下用行為治療法, 即是同佢 SET UP 一個制度, 例如, 要佢不可以無故打人, 首先, 你們不可以打他, 因這會PASS左一個MESSAGE, 打可以解決問題, 係容許既, 跟住同佢講道理, 要佢改善, 如果每日都做到, 可以得到一個貼紙, 儲到10個, 可以容許有小小獎勵, 如始慮推, 慢慢可以改善到佢既行為。
but one thing ridiculars, he can always control/ behave well in school (or even at sunday sch) so the govt clinic classified his case as marginal one
我問過社工, 如果孩子係學校可以做到, 即是佢有能力做, 不過佢係屋企放任, 父母要清楚同佢講明, 佢咁樣既態度會令家人很傷心, 佢打你, 要即刻捉住佢, 叫佢坐抵冷靜, 之後問佢原因, 同佢傾, 如果佢係街發X, 就即刻反屋企, 不可以忍讓, 否則習慣左好難改。
其實我個大仔都有咁既情況, 出到外, 表現得好好, 但係屋企脾氣好大, 我D朋友全部都唔信佢咁樣, 後來我問社工, 社工話亞仔蝦我地,社工話通常小朋友出現問題, 要2 個場合都有問題, 而算係佢 CONTROL 有問題, 如果只得一個, 即是話其實佢地可以CONTROL, 只不過, 佢地選擇發脾氣打人, 所以要用方法教導, 我大仔10YEARS, 我同佢講佢既脾氣咁大, 真令我好唔鍾意, 唔開心, 如果佢唔改善,我真係唔想同佢住, 因為佢咁樣做只係顧自己, 我話你對出面人仲好過自己人, 佢開頭唔認, 跟住我舉例, 佢無聲出, 最近開始有改善啦, 所以不可縱容呢D行為, 以為大D就會好, 要細個就教。
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