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Cayenne | 2007-07-27 15:39
Quote:原文章由 Jillbaba 於 07-7-27 14:42 發表
I can proudly say that I did not rely on any connections to reach my present stage.
A derivated value system will lead to loss of value and as a parent we have to be careful. Deep in Katy's ...

C'mon, , , one moment I'm talking about asking a friendly uncle to get a summer internship placement, and the next moment you're talking about insider trading and what not. That's quite a quantum leap isn't it ? That's what I call stretching the facts.

I admire your single-handed struggle to the top.

But hey ! May be we're twins ? ! I have received no help from anyone since my primary school, as I began paying my own fees through scholarship and tutoring. Everything I have, I get it through blood, sweat and tears. Can I pontificate and say the same proud words as you do ?

I dare not.

Because without an old friend who supplied me with insider information on the pros and cons of a certain IS, I wouldn't have made the correct decision in the most critical stage of my child's education.
And without the advice of a senior alumnus, I wouldn't have make an informed choice on my future career.

An the list goes on and on.

Yes, these are the connections I have used all my life, and I am not ashamed at all because they are not the type that you try to paint your broad brush with. [ 本文章最後由 Cayenne 於 07-7-27 16:09 編輯 ]
Moonhui | 2007-07-27 16:00
I would like to know the fee of ESF per month.
Anyone knows?
Yau_Cheung | 2007-07-28 12:28
For year 2007/2008
Primary (yr 1 to 6): HK$54,300 (10 instalments)
Secondary (yr 7 to 13): HK$85,000 (10 instalments)

Quote:原文章由 Moonhui 於 07-7-27 16:00 發表
I would like to know the fee of ESF per month.
Anyone knows?

katyfok | 2007-07-29 02:34
[size=11.5pt]First of all,
[size=11.5pt]Thank you Cayenne! I guess no need for me to explain at this point... you've done marvelous job.
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[size=11.5pt]Jillbaba,
[size=11.5pt]Lighten up!
[size=11.5pt]" crossing the line"? " [size=11.5pt]bribery[size=11.5pt]"[size=11.5pt]?[size=11.5pt] ..wow, you remind me of those chess Chinese TV series .[size=11.5pt]
[size=11.5pt]IN those series
[size=11.5pt]1. Most rich people are somehow " evil". They’re either crooks or facing family problems! Their next generation knows nothing but partying, their wives knows nothing but ways to spend $!
[size=11.5pt]2. the successful ones are those from " not so well-off" families, they work their way up to the top... find him/herself a great boy/girl friend... and live happily ever after ( or course, they struggled , but managed to beat the bag guys, aka the rich)
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[size=11.5pt]well, please don't jump to the conclusion. Having good connection doesn’t equal to tempting to bribe later on![size=11.5pt] Or “ crossing the line” like you mentioned.
[size=11.5pt]( in fact, if you really wanna go into that, I would assume it's the ones who doesn't have the connection needs to bribe ,hee hee)
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[size=11.5pt]If you have watched too much TV when you're younger, perhaps you've been poisoned!
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[size=11.5pt]I guess, other[size=11.5pt] hard working[size=11.5pt], you're also very lucky.
[size=11.5pt]Never say Never ! Do you have kids? If yes, oh well, I don't know.. "the road is long".
[size=11.5pt]You never know.......perhaps one day you will use some connection for your kids ( or not)and you don't even realize it.
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[size=11.5pt]Finally,[size=11.5pt] I think you're a little out of the line here.. we're here to discuss a topic and there's no need to call me " poor soul" , " Arrogant" or " ignorant"!!!
[size=11.5pt]Be a little bit more open -minded pls... we are discussing [size=11.5pt]a topic [size=11.5pt]here , not in a battle.[size=11.5pt] Calling names when you hear things you don’t agree with… that’s one thing I ‘m not teaching my kids!
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[size=11.5pt]It's good that you " never" use any connection.. perhaps with this kinda attitude, you don't have too many people to connect with![size=11.5pt]
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[size=11.5pt]Whatever! whatever! Do whatever you like and believe in whatever you feel comfortable with as long as you’re not hurting anyone….no one’s gonna come and force you…. that’s the beauty of a free society! SO.... CHILL OUT!
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[ 本文章最後由 katyfok 於 07-7-29 02:52 編輯 ]
katyfok | 2007-07-29 02:44
Jillbaba,

one las thing...

You're too funny! I've never said this.. you said it FOR ME thou and its' NOT TRUE!!!!!!!

" ..You know why? Because someone seems to have a deviated value system as he/she thinks connection is more important than efforts...."


I was trying to point out " connection " is very important!
I would never tell my kids forget about harding hard and just party with the " right" people!!!!!:-) :-) :-)
Magneto | 2007-07-29 08:44
Quote:原文章由 katyfok 於 07-7-29 02:44 發表
Jillbaba,

one las thing...

You're too funny! I've never said this.. you said it FOR ME thou and its' NOT TRUE!!!!!!!

" ..You know why? Because someone seems to have a deviated value sy ...


Ithink you were not only pointing it out as important but try to makeitas a rule that it is the number one priority to choose school!

Ifgetting connected to the *right* (from your perspective, arethosekids with rich and powerful parents) people is what youthink themost important for a child's education, I am sure that youcare the money that your kid will make much more than your kid.

Educationis not all about how much money and how great a career yourkids shouldhave in the future course of their lives. It is about how to nuturethem to be a decent people and have the right attitude totheir lives.

Localschool go one way by spoon-feeding academic knowledge to peoplebutneglecting almost entirely the soft-skills and attitude that oneneedsto be a decent people. IS may be able to provide some sort of abalancethat from my experience should be the most important thing todo.However, you have actually gone to a long way to think thatgainingconnection is the number one mission that all the parents shouldhaveon considering the best education of their kids. Is it reasonable?

Takinga short-cut if your kid are not able may be understandable. Butdo youthink you should put more focus on how the school can help tomake yourkid able first? [ 本文章最後由 Magneto 於 07-7-29 09:11 編輯 ]
Jillbaba | 2007-07-31 01:06
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Kalani | 2007-07-31 02:04
ssaang,
I agree with you ! [ 本文章最後由 Kalani 於 07-7-31 02:15 編輯 ]
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