Re: 「對不起，騷擾到你， 我兒患了自閉症」

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jasper888 | 2006-08-17 20:17
Dear mrsphcheung

Thanks for the newspaper clipping. It is just sad for him to think that way. I don't know how he can face failure in the future. No one can have a perfect 10 life.
奀豬mami~~ | 2006-08-19 18:45
我試過有次帶奀豬睇醫生,佢係診所大喊,唔小心踢到坐係隔離既太太,我即時同太太講對唔住,又解釋比太太聽佢有自閉傾向,所以有時會有少少失控,但係太太好不肖咁望一望我,再問佢先生講咩係自閉症,佢先生答佢:"即係好似低能果D囉",我聽到之後都好難受,亦都唔明白點解宜家既香港人會係咁樣,而且我覺得好可悲既係大人都咁,佢地點識教下一代呢??????? :wth: :wth: :wth: :wth:
mrsphcheung | 2006-08-19 20:09
Typical Hongkongers, naive! Being narrow-minded, they are poor people. Many so-called well-educated people also behave like this. Because of this, I find that I can't have many understanding friends to talk about my child's situation.

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奀豬mami~~ 寫道:
我試過有次帶奀豬睇醫生,佢係診所大喊,唔小心踢到坐係隔離既太太,我即時同太太講對唔住,又解釋比太太聽佢有自閉傾向,所以有時會有少少失控,但係太太好不肖咁望一望我,再問佢先生講咩係自閉症,佢先生答佢:"即係好似低能果D囉",我聽到之後都好難受,亦都唔明白點解宜家既香港人會係咁樣,而且我覺得好可悲既係大人都咁,佢地點識教下一代呢??????? :wth: :wth: :wth: :wth:
hinhinmummy | 2006-08-20 09:15
奀豬mami~~

o..........實在太了解你當時的心情, 比著我, 我會同返果位先先講, 自閉症吾=低能, 並解釋給他聽, 乜野叫自閉症

mrsphcheung

我比你好運, 我公司有一個好好心地的女孩, 她平日放工會去幫d新移民家庭的小朋友義務幫助功課, 而我初時都吾敢向好提及我仔係自閉症, 但言談之間總會漏口風, 而現在我每向好提及個仔的進步, 她都會同我一齊開心, 我總算搵到個可以籍得我信賴的人傾訴心聲..................(除左老公之外的人, 因為有時正正係要投訴老公無幫手) :-)
pamam | 2006-08-20 19:53
It is not easy to find someone to talk about our sons' problem, many moms(normal kids) I met are the typical narrow-minded HK moms, they are educated but still consider 自閉症=低能, here is one type I particular try to avoid. I am sure you must have met some too because they are all over HK, here are their profiles:

- they all drive a Mercedes(but just a C-class, entry level), theywould rather wait in the car for their children to avoid paying HK$2 meter fee

-they wear at least one item with designer labels, if not clothes/shoes, then their handbags, it must be LV or a very easily recognizable brand name, if it is clothing, you would definitely see the logo somewhere

-their children also wear at least 1 designer label but the logo is even bigger

-they only want their kids go to famous schools or int'l school

-they hire tutors to their home teaching their children 1 to 1 English, Mandarin, French etc

-they all like to talk about their maids, especially how to 'manage' them or more correctly 'exploit' them

Do you think I would discuss my son's problems with them? I'd rather talk here.
奀豬mami~~ | 2006-08-20 20:22
我都覺得好少人會明白我地特殊媽媽既心情,不過係呢度,我可以好暢快咁講下自己既感受,自己唔開心時,又可以發洩下,真係會舒服好多,好多謝各位 :-) :-) :-) :-)
Siu_Ming | 2006-08-20 21:45
Dear pamam,

Yours is an interesting and unfortunately quite an accurate observation. But I find an more reliable way to distinguish them, it is when they start to talk!

markojacey | 2006-08-20 22:04
我個仔都係自閉症，我都係响度揾度啱key的BK mom，傾吓計，講吓阿仔的進展，不論好與壞。所以我都覺得你哋所提及那位10A狀元， :chair: :chair: :chair: 希望他將來出到社會工作時，不會像他說那番說話的態度。否則他也很難找到知心友。 :cry: :cry:
llcathy2004 | 2006-08-20 22:12
咁多位媽咪,我想問下,若小朋友情緒失控時應點處理?好似今日,我同阿仔落巴士,佢係要自己落車唔比我拖,我夾硬拖住佢一落左車就發癲咁喊,唔肯行lur係地下，果度係巴士總站又多人又污糟，想抱佢起身走佢又掙扎，攪一輪先勉強捉走佢，途中因唔夠力佢都再lur過幾次落地．如果佢爸爸係度一定打佢，應唔應該咁呢．．． :cry:
sjmama | 2006-08-20 22:32
小女也經常情緒失控, 按政府專家的說法, 最好可以"防患於未然", 即是在未失控前制止, 否則一旦開始了"CYCLE", 就只能等到結束 :cry:

我們的做法, 如果是在街上, 就把她抱到較安全的地方, 然後抱緊她, 讓她安靜下來, 期間不用跟她說什麼(她也聽不進), 但千萬要記住不要讓孩子因此得到他的要求, 否則他便會認為哭鬧是有效的方法得到她想要的東西!
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