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小彬女 | 2008-10-16 16:31
Kellyaugust2004,

我係 睇緊政府架, 有得轉我都想轉個醫生, 因為呢個醫生每次返去覆診都係幾分鐘, 問佢既問題佢完全答我唔到.

Randifung,
社工都有既, 佢地只係幫到我舒緩我既情緒, 其他野都係幫唔到幾多. 至於行為治療方面, 之前都排到我個仔, 因為我係返工既, 佢要連續半年每個星期一日, 我實在請唔咁多假, 我問佢地可唔可以剩係亞仔做, 佢地話唔得, 所以冇接受到.

而家都搵緊小童群益會睇下有冇呢類既行為治療, 但係排期等約見先知亞仔要咩服務.

唉........................
MdmFung | 2008-10-16 21:22
Hi Kelly,
仔仔已經七歲半la, 係傳统小學讀二年級. 其實係一年級下學期我已經有懷疑, 不過因為接近考試, 而我知自己超級緊張, 可能會唔知點算好, 所以等到學期尾冇壓力嘅時侯先去面對 (哈哈, 其實可能等吓有冇其績會發生-點知冇!:( )
我仲記得係見醫生前,自已不停上網揾資料,去買書睇,去做check list,有時覺得阿仔5、6個point都中, 有時又好似得2、３個, 總知唔知自己想點, 到後來老公話咁擔心, 不如去check 吓啦. 到醫生confirm 咗時, 我真係down到不得了, 又自責, 因為ADHD有可能係父母嘅遺傳, 係天生, 總知唔係小朋友自已想, 而我哋作為父母親嘅, 就令佢條路比人辛苦D, 要比人付出多好多, 你話點會唔心痛! (講講吓真係要再kiss吓個仔先得:loveliness: . 而我仲有過四歲半嘅女, 佢會係ADHD 嘅機會又比正常嘅小朋友多5倍, 你話唔驚就假!
不過, "Life must go on" 係由你自已選擇點去面對. 而且, 如果大人自已都唔勇敢、積極同正面去面對個症, 又怎可能幫到個小朋友.
至於做功課問題, 就算其他小朋友都可能會有same problem. 如果佢咁堅持自己的想法和答案, 都唔聽你教, why no放手比佢錯一次, 你可以同佢講, "媽咪今次跟你嘅方法, 如果老師都話你嘅錯, 咁下次就要跟我啦!" 你試吓d個方法得唔得.
到你老公嘅問題, 都係要你同佢做多d心理輔導, 要佢理解同諒解阿仔, 叫佢覺得要發脾氣時, 就由你接手. 同樣, 如果你想發脾氣時, 就由佢接手, 希望咁樣會好d啦
MdmFung | 2008-10-16 21:34
Quote:原帖由 小彬女 於 08-10-16 16:31 發表
Kellyaugust2004,

我係 睇緊政府架, 有得轉我都想轉個醫生, 因為呢個醫生每次返去覆診都係幾分鐘, 問佢既問題佢完全答我唔到.

Randifung,
社工都有既, 佢地只係幫到我舒緩我既情緒, 其他野都係幫唔到幾多. 至於行 ...


政府個d有時就真係比佢激死, 好似阿仔咁, 佢哋回信俾我話要等到2010年尾先有醫生見, 到時先再作治療同食藥....真係冇佢辨法!

你會唔會考慮睇多個私家醫生做back-up? 我知有d家長會睇政府同私家, 如果冇也特別就照等政府覆診, 有特別or urgent 時, 就去見私家醫生...
Kellyaugust2004 | 2008-10-16 22:22
Randjfung

thanks so much for your sharing. i've a big flight with my son tonight. (as my husband comes back home very late once a week, my son is more naughtier).
i also found that when the medicine effect go away, he is evern worse than before .
don't know what's the solution. i feel bad when my patient gone as he is really really difficult to handle. all my friends said i'm a person with big patient. but... still can't control myself .
:pity:Quote:原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 21:22 發表
Hi Kelly,
仔仔已經七歲半la, 係傳统小學讀二年級. 其實係一年級下學期我已經有懷疑, 不過因為接近考試, 而我知自己超級緊張, 可能會唔知點算好, 所以等到學期尾冇壓力嘅時侯先去面對 (哈哈, 其實可能等吓有冇其績會 ...
MdmFung | 2008-10-16 23:09
Quote:原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-10-16 22:22 發表
Randjfung

thanks so much for your sharing. i've a big flight with my son tonight. (as my husband comes back home very late once a week, my son is more naughtier).
i also found that when the medic ...


有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔仲多咗時間玩...
MdmFung | 2008-10-16 23:12
Quote:原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 23:09 發表


有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔 ...


sorry...sould be bad buy

p.s. 如果可以係食療時段, 成效仲大
irenenghm | 2008-10-17 00:43
hi Kellyaugust2004,

thx, pls check pm

Quote:原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-10-16 12:42 發表
路人(甲) and irene

sent out pm already. pls check.
Kellyaugust2004 | 2008-10-17 18:59
Randjfung
i guess it's still too earlier to send him to those tutorial class. (or i guess a tutor is better for him, right?).
but it's a solution.Quote:原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 23:09 發表


有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔 ...
MdmFung | 2008-10-18 02:15
502, Cookieng & Irenenghm,

pls check PM
MdmFung | 2008-10-18 02:21
Randjfung
i guess it's still too earlier to send him to those tutorial class. (or i guess a tutor is better for him, right?).
but it's a solution.


我都係上門一對一補, 我唸a group style is not fit for him ma. 佢都專注唔到, 去補習社都冇用, right?
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